The short answer is, you could eliminate the Ididit relay all together and just wire the toggle switches as they are laid out in the Ron Francis wiring diagram that came with your kit. I am curious however. What is your "driving style" and how does it affect the way you drive this car as apposed to how you drive your daily? Properly adjusted, there should be NO friction between the turn signal switch and the hub. That said, there are other options for turn signal switches.

Frank