From some strange mishap, my Coyote/TKX setup came without the slave cylinder - Mike was great and shipped it out - but I'm a bit confused on instructions (or lack thereof)

I understand the premise of the components, but I'm thinking of the assembly, the angles, the lubrication, etc.

When I received the Coyote/TKX - all that was attached was the adapter to the clutch fork, and I though - hmm, this ain't right?!
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so I called up Mike - love the guy, he can tell some great stories! He chatted with me while he was checking on his chicken coop
he shipped some parts, and I'm still a little perplexed... surely there's instructions - right? nope - not in a one page setup as I had hoped...
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I disassembled a bit more to see the piston behind the rubber grommet and see where the aluminum cup should go
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so a few questions...

do you lube the aluminum cup inside and out, the piston cup itself, and the rod? it seems like a busy friction point - white lithium grease or synthetic lube?

also, when I go to mount the slave cylinder, a few things.
1. I think there should be some shims to straighten the throw - correct?

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and secondly, the bolts sent with the slave, don't really fit the mount! anyone know the thread size on those bolts?

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